He Can Run a Meeting but Not a Dishwasher

When someone keeps saying “I can’t,” the work doesn’t go away. Someone else picks it up. This week, Kim and Rose sit down with therapist Annie Wright ( to talk about weaponized incompetence, which is what happens when one person does a task badly, or claims they can’t do it at all, until the more capable person takes over. Annie shows that the viral term is actually about emotional labor and what she calls “patriarchy made personal.” Wright talks about why ambitious, feminist women still end up carrying the load and how the same pattern follows them into… Video by YouTube channel.