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Why Women Lose Desire in Long-Term Relationships

21 May 2026

What if the secret to better sex isn’t a new position or a fancy toy — but understanding desire, pleasure, connection, and your own body? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Casperson sits down with sexuality researcher and educator Nicole McNichols to unpack why women lose desire in long-term relationships, the myth of spontaneous desire, how stress and mental load affect libido, and why pleasure is essential for health and intimacy. They also discuss: • Responsive vs spontaneous desire • Why novelty matters in long-term relationships • The science behind attrac… Video by YouTube channel.

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